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		By: Clyde Dee		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2016 13:59:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://timdreby.com/positive-self-fulfilling-prophesies/#comment-216&quot;&gt;Don Karp&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you, your question will help me with other parts of the chapter.  I think affirmations need to be flexible and address human needs primarily. They can pursue wants, but if needs are being met, gratefulness for needs being met can soothe that desire. 

I realize this issue may need to be brought up earlier in the chapter as a result. 

As a writer, I have had a fundamental need to write.  I write to be read and want to be read, but that part of the deal is up to higher powers.  It&#039;s true that I battle with a sense of invisibility that hurts, but then I have to adjust my prophesy so that my needs get addressed and my wants reside where they need to, under higher powers.

A sense and acceptance  of limitations is necessary for self actualization and health.  I think famous sports achievers have to battle enormous obstacles and they have ups and downs too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://timdreby.com/positive-self-fulfilling-prophesies/#comment-216">Don Karp</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you, your question will help me with other parts of the chapter.  I think affirmations need to be flexible and address human needs primarily. They can pursue wants, but if needs are being met, gratefulness for needs being met can soothe that desire. </p>
<p>I realize this issue may need to be brought up earlier in the chapter as a result. </p>
<p>As a writer, I have had a fundamental need to write.  I write to be read and want to be read, but that part of the deal is up to higher powers.  It&#8217;s true that I battle with a sense of invisibility that hurts, but then I have to adjust my prophesy so that my needs get addressed and my wants reside where they need to, under higher powers.</p>
<p>A sense and acceptance  of limitations is necessary for self actualization and health.  I think famous sports achievers have to battle enormous obstacles and they have ups and downs too.</p>
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		By: Don Karp		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[In my days of hearing voices, they were indistinguishable  whispers. My intuition was that they were about me and were bad. Finally, after many bad ones, I got a skilled therapist. She told me that the voices indicated I needed to work on current rejections in my life. When I did this they tapered off, finally to zero.
Not all voices are good or bad, and as you&#039;ve mentioned, it&#039;s often hard to tell if they are good or bad.
I&#039;m reminded here of research on affirmations in which the disappointment of not achieving them was worse than having no affirmation at all. 
What happens when these self-fulfilling positive voices just do not materialize into anything?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my days of hearing voices, they were indistinguishable  whispers. My intuition was that they were about me and were bad. Finally, after many bad ones, I got a skilled therapist. She told me that the voices indicated I needed to work on current rejections in my life. When I did this they tapered off, finally to zero.<br />
Not all voices are good or bad, and as you&#8217;ve mentioned, it&#8217;s often hard to tell if they are good or bad.<br />
I&#8217;m reminded here of research on affirmations in which the disappointment of not achieving them was worse than having no affirmation at all.<br />
What happens when these self-fulfilling positive voices just do not materialize into anything?</p>
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